Meetings that can transform you and others

Our course

If you're ready to take a major step toward a black belt in human connection, you're in the right place. This course takes you deep. It's about leading yourself and others with greater presence, empathy, and authenticity. It could spark a deep inner journey in personal development – an intense process that challenges you, shake things up, but ultimately transforms how you lead and how you connect with others at the deepest level.

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Who’s it for

This course is for managers, team leaders, and anyone with people responsibility who wants to go deeper into their leadership. It’s designed for both those new to the role and those with years of experience. We believe that true leadership starts with self-awareness and that the courage to build deep, authentic relationships is key to creating psychological safety in a team. The course is offered both in-house for organizations and as an open program where you’ll grow alongside leaders from different industries. It’s also available in other formats (see The journey continues" for more information).

The details

Length

2 days

Date

2025-10-16 - 2025-10-17

Location

Sunnanå (10 km from Malmö/Lund)

Price

14 000 SEK including accommodation and meals

Max number of participants

14

Language

More info

The course runs from 9:00 day one to 17:30 day two. Day one includes an evening session. Two course instructors throughout.

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About the course

Picture walking into a room. A group of people sits quietly. Leaders, just like you. You take in the energy. Emotions rise and shift – excitement, nervousness, curiosity, anticipation. Soon, you’ll begin an intense inner journey together. One where you’ll meet yourself – and those around you – in a deeper, more honest way. You’ll be challenged. At times, uncomfortable. But you’ll also open to something real and alive.

 

Meetings that can transform you and others is for those who want to master the art of building relationships – perhaps the most important leadership skill of all. Using our unique ERL method, you’ll deepen your connection with yourself and learn to meet others with greater presence, empathy, and authenticity. These qualities are essential for creating psychological safety and engagement in any team. And as your self-leadership grows, you’ll be better equipped to support others’ development.

 

The course is experiential at its core – centered around interactive exercises and group work that invite you into deeper self-awareness. You’ll work in pairs and small groups in a safe environment designed to support honest reflection and real connection. There’s no fixed formula. Instead, we shape the process and pace the challenge based on the needs and capacity of the group. Common elements include deep listening, building trust, noticing your body’s signals, and developing the courage to show up as your full, authentic self with others.

 

This process asks something of you, but it’s not about performing or being perfect. It’s about having the courage to explore, to feel, and to simply be. And it’s an experience that can shift you deeply – helping you rediscover energy, presence, and purpose.

 

ERL is far from a typical leadership course. It’s a transformative journey that gives you the courage, clarity, and grounding to grow – and to help others grow too. An investment in yourself that brings real value to the whole organization.

Goals

Deepen your self-awareness.

Strengthen your self-leadership.

Stay grounded in uncertainty and navigate the unknown with confidence.

Bring more energy and flow into your leadership.

Show up with greater courage and presence in all your relationships – both professional and personal.

Results

Shallow relationships

Real connection that builds trust

Leadership that feels off

Everyday leadership grounded in presence, empathy, and courage

Unsafe culture

Employees who feel confident and grow

The need to control everything

Confidence even when the answers aren’t clear

Everyone doing their own thing

Purpose, engagement, and willingness to contribute

Top-down decisions no one believes in

Decisions that people genuinely support

Quick fixes that backfire

Thoughtful, long-term decisions that last

Focus on short-term results

Long-term profitability built from within

About ERL

ERL is a powerful method for developing your whole self - your thinking, your body, and how you relate to others. It’s something we’ve shaped over years of working with leadership and learning. You’ll practice real, honest interactions with your colleagues and get direct feedback in the moment.

Through ERL, you develop stronger self-awareness, clearer communication, and a grounded presence that deepens your relationships. The result is a leadership style that’s confident, real, and courageous - one that builds trust and supports lasting growth.

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The journey continues

An ERL course is often the starting point of a deep inner journey. Many leaders we work with want to grow – not just for themselves, but to better support others. To support your unique path toward a black belt in relationships, we offer ERL in several formats:

Courses

Weekend retreats

Longer programs

ERL Dojo for ongoing practice

Course instructors

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Patrik Gyland

Patrik is an experienced instructor with a real gift for helping people grow. As a licensed psychologist and entrepreneur, he brings deep expertise in psychology, leadership, and organizational development – all delivered through a practical and inspiring teaching style. With a background as a CEO, consultant, and founder, he knows what it takes to lead through change. Patrik creates a safe, engaging learning environment where participants gain practical tools, fresh insights, and the confidence to grow as leaders.

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Fredrik Gynnhammar

Fredrik is a passionate facilitator who helps participants develop deeper self-awareness and stronger leadership. With a background in physiotherapy, psychotherapy, and embodiment practices, he has a unique ability to connect body, mind, and self-leadership. Drawing on his diverse experience – from healthcare settings to workshops and meditation retreats – Fredrik equips leaders with practical tools to show up with greater presence, clarity, and authenticity.

Our training center

Sunnanå course venue: Large room with gym, pool table and table tennis, large windows along one wall and garden outside

The course takes place at Villa Fortuna, our charming retreat space in Sunnanå, just 10 km from Malmö and Lund. This beautifully preserved historic villa sits in a park-like setting, offering an inspiring environment for learning and development – with both spacious and intimate rooms for workshops and group discussions.

Originally built for one of Malmö’s most successful entrepreneurs, the house has a rich history and is filled with elegant details that reflect the luxury of its era.

Sunnanå course venue: Part of the course centre with high ceilings and a large tree growing indoors, as well as a seating area

To preserve its original character, we’ve chosen to maintain much of the classic architecture. That means bedrooms don’t have private bathrooms, but there are plenty of well-kept shared facilities in the hallway. After a full day of learning, you can unwind with a workout, a game of table tennis or billiards, or a relaxing session in the sauna.

Villa Fortuna is a space for focus, reflection, and renewal – the perfect setting for personal and professional growth.

Sunnanå course venue: Spacious large room with large windows along the entire wall, outdoor sunny garden with two large trees
Sunnanå kursgård: Stort rum med gym, biljardbord och pingisbord, stora fönster längs med ena väggen och trädgård utanför
Sunnanå kursgård: Del av kursgård med högt i tak och inomhus växande stort träd samt soffgrupp
Sunnanå kursgård: Rymligt stort rum med stora fönster längs med hela väggen, utomhus solig trädgård med två stora träd

The course takes place at Villa Fortuna, our charming retreat space in Sunnanå, just 10 km from Malmö and Lund. This beautifully preserved historic villa sits in a park-like setting, offering an inspiring environment for learning and development – with both spacious and intimate rooms for workshops and group discussions.

Originally built for one of Malmö’s most successful entrepreneurs, the house has a rich history and is filled with elegant details that reflect the luxury of its era.

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